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Family and partner reasons are the #1 reason immigrants leave Germany — usually because the family never made it here, or never settled well. This pillar covers the whole arc: the reunification visa, the A1 German your spouse legally needs, the parental money you're entitled to, and how Kita and school really work.

Information about German law — not legal advice. This page summarizes publicly available rules from official sources such as Make-it-in-Germany, BAMF, and state portals. Rules change frequently; thresholds, fees, and documents may differ by embassy, state, or case. This is not individualized legal advice within the meaning of the German Rechtsdienstleistungsgesetz (RDG). For advice on your specific situation, consult a licensed Rechtsanwalt or an authorized Migrationsberatung service. GermanDost accepts no liability for decisions you make based on this content.

Last updated: 2026-07-19

This hub is growing fast — the cards marked In progress are being built and will light up as they ship. Everything here is educational information, not professional advice.

Is Kita free where you live? All 16 Länder

last verified 2026-07-19

Everywhere in Germany you have an enforceable legal claim to a childcare place from age 1 — but what parents PAY is pure Ländersache. 'Free' = parental contribution abolished; food money ~€23–80/month is usually still charged.

Berlin

Free

FREE all ages (since 2018-08)

Mecklenburg-Vorpommern

Free

FREE fully (Krippe+Kita+Hort, since 2020)

Brandenburg

Partly free

Last Kita year free; expansion staged

Bremen

Partly free

FREE from age 3

Hamburg

Partly free

FREE 5 h/day basic slot from birth

Hessen

Partly free

FREE from age 3 for 6 h/day

Niedersachsen

Partly free

FREE from age 3 (Kindergarten years)

Nordrhein-Westfalen

Partly free

Last 2 Kindergarten years free

Rheinland-Pfalz

Partly free

FREE from age 2

Thüringen

Partly free

Last 2 Kita years free

Baden-Württemberg

Fees

No statewide relief — among the most expensive

Bayern

Fees

Fees, offset by 100 €/month state Zuschuss for Kindergarten years (age 3+); Krippengeld 100 €/mo income-dependent

Saarland

Fees

Fees apply; phasing fees down

Sachsen

Fees

Fees apply

Sachsen-Anhalt

Fees

Fees apply

Schleswig-Holstein

Fees

Fees apply; statewide fee cap

⚠ = staging to re-verify on a primary source. Details + how to actually get a place: the Kita guide below.

Family — common questions

Does my wife really need A1 German before the visa?

Not if you hold a Blue Card or a §18a/§18b skilled-worker permit — spouses of these sponsors are explicitly exempt from the A1 requirement (§30 Abs. 1 S. 3 Nr. 5 AufenthG). Spouses of students and permanent residents generally DO need an A1 certificate (Goethe, telc, or ÖSD), and spouses of German citizens need it too, though illness, hardship, and "low integration need" exemptions exist.

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Can my spouse work after arriving in Germany?

Yes — fully, from day one. Any spouse admitted for family reunification gets unrestricted work access by law (§27 Abs. 5 AufenthG); the residence card says "Erwerbstätigkeit erlaubt". No separate work permit, no labor-market check, any job or self-employment.

Family reunification guide
Can I bring my parents to Germany?

Possibly — since March 2024, parents (and parents-in-law, if your spouse also lives here) of skilled workers and Blue Card holders can join, but only if your first German residence title was issued on or after 1 March 2024 (§36 Abs. 3 AufenthG). The practical blocker is health insurance: parents cannot join free family insurance, so you must fund private cover. Be aware the current coalition has announced it wants to abolish this route — if you qualify, apply early.

How long does the family-reunion visa take in Islamabad, Dhaka, or Delhi?

Honest ranges, not promises: India is typically around 2–6 months of processing after submission (over 90 days is normal); Pakistan runs about 6–12 months including document verification, with applications only via the digital Consular Services Portal since 15 January 2026; Bangladesh is around 12–16 months total by the embassy's own figure. Families of Blue Card and skilled workers are processed preferentially.

Embassy-by-embassy timelines
Should I get our marriage certificate apostilled?

No — don't waste the money. Germany objected to India's, Pakistan's, and Bangladesh's accessions to the Apostille Convention, so German authorities reject apostilles from all three countries. What actually happens is authority-initiated document verification: NADRA/union-council field verification for Pakistan (PKR 75,000), embassy verification for Bangladesh (BDT 28,000), and trusted-lawyer verification for India (roughly 150–250 €, varies). Pakistan tip: order fresh NADRA documents only when your submission is near — they expire during the wait.

How much Kindergeld will I get?

259 € per child per month in 2026 (up from 255 €), paid until 18 — or up to 25 if the child is in education. Non-EU parents qualify with a residence title that permits work, which covers Blue Card and skilled-worker holders. Working parents on low incomes can stack Kinderzuschlag on top: up to 297 €/child/month extra.

How much Elterngeld would we get, and do we qualify?

Roughly 65–67 % of the staying-home parent's pre-birth net income, between 300 € and 1,800 € per month, for 12 months plus 2 partner months (14 total). Even a non-working parent gets the 300 € minimum. The income cap is 175,000 € taxable income for births from April 2025; Blue Card and skilled-worker holders qualify, though some short-term titles don't — check §1 Abs. 7 BEEG for your case.

Calculate your Elterngeld
Is Kita free in Germany?

Depends entirely on your Bundesland: Berlin and Mecklenburg-Vorpommern are free at all ages, Rheinland-Pfalz from age 2, Hamburg gives 5 free hours daily from birth, while Bayern and especially Baden-Württemberg charge real fees (several hundred euros monthly for under-3s is possible). Everywhere, you have an enforceable legal claim to a childcare place from age 1 — and food money of roughly 23–80 €/month is usually charged even where care is "free".

How big must my flat be to sponsor my family?

The administrative rule of thumb is 12 m² of living space per person aged 6+, 10 m² per child aged 2–6, with children under 2 not counted and about a 10 % shortfall tolerated. This applies when the sponsor is a foreign national; if the sponsor is a German citizen, the housing requirement doesn't apply and income proof is normally waived too.

Full requirements checklist
Do I pay extra health insurance for my spouse and kids?

No — in statutory insurance (GKV), family insurance is free for your spouse and children as long as their own income stays under the threshold (§10 SGB V). That's a major advantage over private insurance for single-earner families. Kassen differ mainly in price and service: 2026 Zusatzbeiträge range from 2.18 % to 4.39 %, and English-friendly options like TK (2.69 %) are popular with newcomers.

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